Pearls of Parenting/ by Hakim Luqman πŸ‘ͺ

Thoughts take over me so easily! Since the last few days, I've been thinking about Islamic Parenting So, I did some digging on it and such beautiful thing it is!
Not any uncomprehendable philosophy, just that our religion teaches us so much about parenting! πŸ‘ͺ

Fast forwarding, I started digging over the Hakim Luqman's advise(s) to his son. You just imagine how beautiful would these advises are that Allah included them in Qur'an? Isn't it amazing?
I then thought, why not I keep gathering these 'pearls of parenting' from Surah Luqman, and share with you as I'm taking way too much interest in Islamic parenting these days. I know these will benefit you all mummies as well! 🌸

Start!                           
First have a look at this profound ayah:

"O my son, indeed if wrong should be the weight of a mustard seed and should be within a rock or [anywhere] in the heavens or in the earth, Allah will bring it forth. Indeed, Allah is Subtle and Acquainted."   (31:16)   

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🌻The first thing this ayah taught us is the way of giving advice to your children. Notice, how Luqman A.S uses the term of endearment 'Oh my son' first for his son then starts advice. First, show your kid some love, then give advice, he/she will listen it wholeheartedly. Then Luqman A.S is giving him example of Allah's power that look, a boulder, so grand like the size of a room which contains a seed of mustard seed can't be stay hidden from Allah.


 πŸŒ»  Subhan Allah! you know how grand is a boulder and how tiny is a mustard seed. Is it easy for a human to smash such a big stone and find out the tiny seed? It's almost impossible but Allah can do that
Right after this, Luqman A.S advises his son to 'establish' prayer.

🌻 You see, how strategically, he advised his son to offer namaz? He tells Allah is all-hearing, all- seeing. Allah will do justice even a tiny seed can't hide from him. So, son your deeds, good or bad, tiny or big can't stay hidden from Allah.

🌻Sometimes, just saying to your children that 'listen, I'm not here but Allah is watching you' or 'Offer prayer or Allah will punish you'  is not enough or required. Sometimes you have to be closer and give advice by any beautiful example like Luqman A.S did, to show the greatness of Allah to inspire your child to do a certain thing.

Hakim Luqman's teachings must be inculcated in our children to raise them rightly and islamically and we should have the attributes of Hakim Luqman in ourselves. I'll keep sharing from his advices In Shaa Allah.

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